Our story on Prop 8 for tomorrow’s paper couldn’t possibly include all the quotes from people concerning the issue of Prop 8 and it’s victory Tuesday. Here are some of those quotes:
The following quotes are from Alhambra resident Julie Tinney who recently wed her lesbian partner:
“My marriage is legal. My civil marriage
is legal. It was performed in good faith and I am ready for a fight.”
“I would never try to take away anyone
else’s civil marriage. Nor would I tell them who they could marry in
their church.”
“If there is anything that did come out
of this, there were a lot of people who were forced to deal with
their own homophobia. On a personal note, last night I went down to a
neighbors house. I didn’t know them very well and I brought them
cookies. I said, ‘I just wanted you to have cookies because when you
put that No on 8 sign in your yard, it felt like a hug.’ He opened
his arms and gave me a huge hug and said ‘I hope we will win.’ That
was before the results had been announced.”
“The reality of all this is that gay
marriage has been legal for five months and I would ask, how has
their marriage been changed, how has their family been changed in the
last five months? The socially acceptable term for people to have
committed to one another is civil marriage. It is not a domestic
partnership, not a civil union. It is a civil marriage. Society gets
that.”
The following quotes are from Los Angeles area spokeswoman for “Yes on prop 8″ Meg Waters:
“We have to reach out to gay and lesbian
couples and help them realize we are all in the same family and this
does not diminish their relationship or take anything away from them.”
“We have always upheld the right to have civil
unions, the right to adopt and equal legal protections under the law. The
issue of education for us about teaching very young children, I would
think gay and lesbian parents would think the same way. I would feel
that way whether I was a straight couple or gay couple – I would. Parents have
the right to instruct there own children on matters of sexuality.”
“Marriage has been something that is
understood by every culture, every religion, every government, every
socially connected group of people since the dawn of time. The
fundamental nature of a family is between a man and a woman. It
doesn’t make sense now in the 21st century to undue a concept that
has existed for over 10,000 years. We are talking about a really
small number of people who are gay and have adopted. I know some who
have become parents and have a lovely home. But the foundation of a
family, what we have biologically known is between a man and a woman
and they create a family. And because there are a handful of people
who have a different family structure, doesn’t mean you change all of
society to redefine marriage to accommodate a few people. You don’t
upset the whole apple cart for just one or two exceptions.”
The following quotes are from Senior Pastor of My Friends House Assembly of God Church Jim Ortiz:
“Marriage in its most basic and
understood fashion is a relationship of committed individuals working
to have a children. Naturally have children. On that very basic
point, same sex marriage can never be equal to heterosexual marriage.”
“People’s choices of lifestyle are there
own. People choose to live that way. I don’t have the right to
discriminate on a personal level. But when it comes to imposing on a
basic historical institution, then it becomes something I have to
fight against.”
“It is unfortunate that those of us in
the religious community have often been portrayed as bigoted and
hateful toward those in the gay community. My point of view is how
people live is up to them. It is my fundamental understanding that sexual
relationships are human choice and human behaviors are always
discriminated against.
We always discriminate against certain
kinds of behavior. Unfortunately, that has always been portrayed as a
hate issue, but it is not. We want what is most beneficial for
society as a whole, for our families and children.”
The following quotes are from Bruce Gray, Rector of St. Matthias in Whittier.
“I think gay marriage is good for society because it gives a good moral standard for society. It promotes lifelong monogamy in sexual relationships.”
“I am disappointed with the result, but
I was aware going in that this was probably one step of many. We will
probably have to work on this issue for years and years to come.”
“The church still very much embraces
them as god embraces them and we can take inspiration from the
presidential election that it may take decades, but the moral right
will prevail.”