There are those who may have Tim "I hate gay people" Hardaway fatigue and simply never want to hear from him again. I don't blame you. But this interview he gave to ESPN allows the former NBA star to elaborate on his hateful comments about gay people a few weeks back following the release of John Amaechi's book. Some of the excerpts below do shed light onto the depths of his homophobia. He adds that the last few weeks have been "pure hell" for him:
"...it was just the wrong choice of words. It came out of my mouth real crude and real bad and real ugly. And people think that that's the way I feel. That I hate [gay people], and I don't. I don't condone what they do, but I don't hate them. But that's how it came out...I should have been smart about what I was saying and how I expressed my feelings because I offended a lot of folks. And not knowing the magnitude on how this all escalated. I mean, I offended my family, my friends, the NBA, the gay community, people I don't know, the [Miami] Heat organization. I realize that I offended a lot of people and caused a lot of friction on a touchy subject. And now it's my job to make it right."

Hardaway tells ESPN's Scoop Jackson: "I still don't accept their lifestyle. No."
And what does he do when he encounters a gay person on the streets of Miami?
"I just get away from it. I just walk away. I see it, I just go the other way, cross the street...When we was growing up Scoop, if we saw gay people or whatever, we ran across the street. We got away from them. Our parents, our friends, our families knew that that wasn't right. We didn't want to be around that and they definitely didn't want us kids around it. And it's not that they hated gay people, they just felt they it wasn't right. Let them do what they want to do. And that was my experience when I was growing up. Not acknowledging them. Now did something happen to me? No. But I did have a friend that something happened to him in a Catholic school, but that is another can of worms that it's not my place to open because it's not my life. But to answer your question, 'No.' Nothing happened to me. I just don't condone [being gay]. When I see gay people holding hands or kissing in the streets, I just don't think that's right."

OK, so that's his deal. That's a lot of people's deal and it makes me sick. But at least Hardaway now has to confront the fact that, like it or not, there are gay people all around him and he might just have to start dealing with it instead of crossing the street (WHAT is he afraid of? Does he realize the irony in that so many black men have shared how people cross the street when they walk by?)
"Maybe I could go to therapy, maybe someone can help me out with understanding [them], the sensitivity of the issue," he adds. "But as a person, my beliefs are my beliefs. I don't have to condone it and I don't have to be around it. But I don't have to hate it either...Right now, learning. Learning that gay people are really no different than a lot of other people. Learning that they work hard, they do things in the community, they are responsible for building parks, rec centers, providing safe environments for kids, just things I had never associated with them before. [This last week] has opened up my eyes to the gay population and what they do. I'm getting a lot of knowledge about them that I didn't have. Which is going to make me a better person. And if it doesn't, then I'm a damn fool."

So as of now, he's still a "damn fool" as far as I'm concerned...until proven otherwise.