ABC Press Tour: What is Anne Heche saying?

The cast of "Men In Trees" is on stage right now and I'm trying to figure out which of the hot male cast members is the one Anne Heche has hooked up with. OK,, there he is. It's James Tupper who's sitting between John Amos and the show's producer.
Everyone knows she left her hubby and father of her son, Coley Laffoon - who she took up with after parting with Ellen DeGeneres - and is involved with Tupper, her on-screen leading man. Her divorce with Laffoon has been quite ugly.
Someone just asked the entire cast what they have learned about relationships since being on the show. Ha! Good way to try and address the elephant in the room.
Heche, sounding like her alternate personality (I think it was called Celesta in her memoir "Call Me Crazy") responded by saying "One of the great things that has been so great to me is finding a family. They help support you through difficult times and don't judge yoiu and allow you to make mistakes."
She went on to refer to the cast as "such a loving family and supporting group...I've learned to trust a family that is chosen and so necessary in my life. You can develop a family in this world."
As for Tupper, he chuckled befoire answering and merely said:"I never knew that if a man gets into trouble, he gets to go fishing."
Nice way to dodge the question!