Lopez v Miller: The phone calls
Jude Lopez tipped me off to this case last night. Here's a copy of an email he sent:
Do you remember me telling you about the annoying phone calls that our family had been receiving for the last few months? The numbers were restricted but Verizon traced them at our request and sent them to the police. Some of the calls were threatening but I am not sure if they were traced to him. Here is the information we received from court.
The email came with this .pdf file from the court.
Finally there's this story we've posted on line as of noon:
The ex-boyfriend of a woman, who has disappeared with their three kids, was arrested last month for a making annoying telephone calls to the fugitive's father, records show.
Brian Miller, the son of Rep. Gary Miller, R-Diamond Bar, allegedly made harassing calls to Jude Lopez, the father of Jennifer DeJongh, who had three kids with Miller.
The charge, for making repeated calls to "intent to annoy another person at his or her residence," is a misdemeanor.
Dejongh has been a fugitive for several months after disobeying a custody order and disappearing with the kids in November.
Lopez said that he received about 30 calls in the months following Dejongh's disappearance, including three threatening calls.
He said he used a Verizon phone company service to set up the calls to be traced.
Sherrie Davidson, who works in the law offices of Antonio Bestard, who is representing Miller, said that police used the Verizon data as the basis for the charges.
Lopez said he was not sure if Miller was involved in the threatening calls or just calling in and hanging up.
"The threats sounded like they were coming from a disguised voice," said Lopez. "I don't know if it was him, or maybe someone else he knew, or someone else entirely."
Comments
Well, I guess since Brian Miller is officially being charged with harassing phone calls then the police have the proper evidence to charge him with a crime. If he pleads guilty does that mean he is really guilty or, "Does he just want to put it all behind him?"
Posted by: Anyone | April 11, 2008 4:06 PM
Brian Miller must really be in misery over his boys being gone. So miserable that he makes harassing &phone calls. What a loser.
Posted by: Truth | April 11, 2008 4:18 PM
The real losers here are the Lopez and Dejongh families. It is amazing that the Lopez family has turned the children into pawns and no one seems to see the pain and fear that these two families are putting these children through. The Millers are decent,honorable people and were only acting in the best welfare of these children. It is not difficult to see that the Lopez family are not the most sane or rational bunch. Removing the children from their influence and into the Miller home certainly seems the best option for a healthy life for those three boys.
Posted by: Supporting the Millers | April 13, 2008 11:10 PM
The real losers here are the Lopez and Dejongh families. It is amazing that the Lopez family has turned the children into pawns and no one seems to see the pain and fear that these two families are putting these children through. The Millers are decent,honorable people and were only acting in the best welfare of these children. It is not difficult to see that the Lopez family are not the most sane or rational bunch of losers. Removing the children from their influence and into the Miller home certainly seems the best option for a healthy life for those three boys.
Posted by: Supporting the Millers | April 13, 2008 11:12 PM
The real losers here are the Lopez and Dejongh families. It is amazing that the Lopez family has turned the children into pawns and no one seems to see the pain and fear that these two families are putting these children through. The Millers are decent,honorable people and were only acting in the best welfare of these children. It is not difficult to see that the Lopez family are not the most sane or rational bunch of losers. Removing the children from their influence and into the Miller home certainly seems the best option for a healthy life for those three boys.
Posted by: Supporting the Millers | April 13, 2008 11:13 PM
The boys living with their loving mother no matter where they are... Sure beats a life with a CRAZY, CONVICTED CHILD ABUSER DAD!!! Gary & Cathy Miller are as shady as their whacked out, CONVICT son Brian.
http://www.beyonddelay.org/summaries/miller.php
If you look at the facts in the case, Brian Miller has an extensive criminal history including child abuse/endangerment which he plead GUILTY for. A guilty man of child abuse should never be around children.
And your basis for taking kids away from a loving mother is that she is crazy and a liar?
SUPPORTING THE MILLERS - Supports dead beat dads, child abusers, cohabitant abusers, child molesters, and corrupt grandparents.
Definitely the kind of people that should be raising kids...
Get some good legal, concrete facts instead of posting nonsense. And posting the same thing 3 times shows that you are a real moron.
Posted by: Miller's Are Crooks | April 14, 2008 11:15 PM
Is it not OK to not support the Millers and yet still think that the Lopez family are crooks too. I can't see leaving those children with Jenny and feeling they are in a good environment. They (Lopez) are not good people and to support them just to spite a politician makes that person just as wrong as the politician they are trying to spite. When there are children involved, you cannot justify supporting losers just to better your argument. If you can do that and still sleep at night, then you should take a good hard look at your morals and character. People had better stop supporting parents and start supporting the children or our system will continue to side with one parent or another with complete disregard for the welfare of the kids. Anyone who knows Jenny knows those kids are not in a good place today. Some of their own family has cut them off for this because they get it. I won’t settle for “well, it’s better than them being with Brian”. That’s a coward’s way of not taking a stand for the kids.
Posted by: the kids first | April 15, 2008 4:35 PM
I know Jenny, she raised her kids since birth and has been a good mom. Her boys love her and they have always been in a good loving home. I will take a stand for the kids, they are better off with each other and their mom. This Brian Miller guy and his parents sound crazier than a circus.
Posted by: Johnny V | April 15, 2008 5:53 PM
I think Brian Miller has handled this pretty well....If these were my children Good old Judas Lopez would have been harrassed EVERYDAY! He knows were the children are! As, a parent my heart breaks for these children. Is Jenny hoping to get a lifetime for woman movie made out of this? She's always saying, she has roles in movies that never happen! I don't know Brian personally BUT, I do know Cathy and Gary. They love their grandchildren!
Posted by: A real Mom | April 16, 2008 9:53 AM
Well they love the twins anyway... According to what Gary and Cathy said in court documents. C-mon real mom, stop spinning the truth.
Posted by: A real Fake | April 16, 2008 1:57 PM
No SPIN zone here buddy! just the truth from the mouth of a REAL Mom! not, a young girl who got prego without being married in hopes of marrying into money! When it didn't work out for her....She started with all her crazy accusations! That's the truth! She ran around town bragging about the Millers! never heard a bad word from her mouth when she was sleeping with Brian....Just how in LOVE she was....The Millers took her in as family! I was ALWAYS a leary of her dramatic ways not them they stood by her through all her lies and B.S.! See where it got them....Missing grandchildren!
Posted by: A real Mom | April 17, 2008 3:48 PM
Well real mom, you should spend more time with your own kids rather than on the internet. Although you make some valid points, as a mom you know kids should be with the parent who raised them, not an ABSENT, DEADBEAT, SICK, CRAZY, CONVICTED, HARASSING ABUSING, MOLESTING dad Brian Miller. You are a real mom if you can admit that.
Posted by: Anonymous | April 18, 2008 10:47 AM
Well real mom, you should spend more time with your own kids rather than on the internet. Although you make some valid points, as a mom you know kids should be with the parent who raised them, not an ABSENT, DEADBEAT, SICK, CRAZY, CONVICTED, HARASSING ABUSING, MOLESTING dad Brian Miller. You are a real mom if you can admit that.
Posted by: Anyone | April 18, 2008 10:48 AM
Silly Judas, you posted the same message twice! with two different names! That's funny! My children are in School were they should be! Your post doesn't make sense.....You address me then you go off the deep end about Brian! You say I have valid points WOW! Which is it? Hey, Judas I know were my kids are...Do you know were your (Grand) kids are?....Yes, you do! When this all comes to an end you will regret all the lies and hatred you spread about the Millers! Like it or not their blood runs thru those grand babies!Wake up!
Posted by: A real Mom | April 18, 2008 11:05 AM
www.savejennyskids.net - believe it!
Posted by: A real Mom | April 18, 2008 11:41 PM
Judas! Now your using my screen name? get a life!
Posted by: A real Mom | April 19, 2008 12:44 PM
Okay.....Let me guess "Jenny" told Brian she was on birth control right?.....Don't know Jen or Brian but is sounds fishy...A Congressman, his son, aspiring actress WOW! all the makings of a Lifetime for women! Opps I'm PREGO works once but twice shame shame on you!Jen, your giving real women a bad name!Your Pops his funny! my daughter was Miss Diamond Bar..She never has drank or even got a speeding ticket...Come on foolish one! Worse she had three children unmarried with a man by your account is crazy.....hmmmm...something
just doesn't smell right! But, Jen Jen is PERFECT right?
Posted by: Who does that? | April 19, 2008 6:54 PM
I thought this blog was about the phone call charges and Brian Millers arraignment on 4-24-08
Posted by: observant | April 21, 2008 9:35 PM
I hope someone lets us know the outcome of the arraignment on Thursday.I wonder what kind of deal he will make!
Posted by: Brama fan | April 22, 2008 10:05 AM
The latest on Brian Miller's Superior Court case (harassing and threating calls).He has confessed and he will be sentenced on Thursday morning in Pomona.Details will appear in this paper on Friday or Saturday.
Posted by: observant II | April 22, 2008 4:19 PM
He will probably get 30 days on a cal trans crew and go to counseling to control his anger.
Posted by: walnut dad | April 22, 2008 4:42 PM
Who cares that Brian called Ju Ju, and hung up on him! Get over it!
Posted by: smart | April 22, 2008 5:26 PM
The People Of The State Of California Vs.Brian Gene Miller,thats who.
Posted by: observant | April 22, 2008 6:48 PM
I haven't been following this for a while, but 30 days on a work crew sounds pretty good compared to what the mother will get when she's finally arrested. Not too sure about California courts, but in the midwest, mothers (and fathers) get several years in prison for hiding children from the other parent. Remember Kathleen Soliah of the Symbionese Liberation Army? She was on the run for 24 years and they finally caught her. You can run, but not forever.
Posted by: Cornhusker | April 23, 2008 7:54 AM
Yes cornhusker your right,the mother is facing at least 3 years if convicted.As of this moment all I have seen is that there is a warrant for her arrest,no formal charges yet.Even if the DA files and it goes to trial,I believe that you will find at least 1 (or all 12) clear thinking juror(s) that will agree that she disobeyed the custody order to protect her children from an abusive father.
Posted by: Purple lion | April 23, 2008 8:45 AM
Will someone PLEASE explain the name change of the eldest child (Brian)to Brad. Is this tue? What did ALL the doctors say about that? Jude, please clear this up!
Posted by: thinking clear | April 23, 2008 9:33 AM
Why doesn't the question about the name change ever get answered? If, this is true....This, sounds like mental abuse! Was it the Lopez family who changed his name? I would like to know what the doctors said, about this! I don't want to hear from the Miller side I would like to hear from the Lopez family about this. Would could possibly be the explanation of this kind of abuse! and that's what it is ABUSE! Jude, you seem like a straight forward man...So, please explain this!
Posted by: what's in a name | April 23, 2008 11:20 AM
Well purple lion, the idea that a juror would decide it is ok to break the law if they want is scary. So does that mean that anyone who does not agree with a court ruling can just ignore it? it does not matter if someone has a wached out motive in their crazy head, hey still should be held liable for breaking the law. the system will never work if we allow loonies to interpret the importance of an order. In every case you will have someone not happy with the ruling. In your words, that makes it ok to fight the law. Even if you agree with her "why", she still needs to be punished for breaking the law!
Posted by: Her fault | April 23, 2008 11:30 AM
My aunt Cookie's legal name is Mary Joan.I have a friend who uses the name Skip or Skipper,his real name is Walter.My cousin Chauncy's real name is John Jr.he even has a drivers license with Chauncy, even in his yearbook.How about Beaver Clever.Even George Herman Ruth was called "Babe" I don't think any of their parents were abusers.
Posted by: what in a name | April 23, 2008 5:03 PM
Come on buddy, I'm not buying it! Where's Jude? I would love to hear it from him! and what's the doctors take on this? To change a boys name because you hate the father is sick! Yes, my friend that is abusive! Come on Jude, you have all the other medical reports I'm sure you have the ones were the doctors commented on the name change huh? don't hold back Jude, let's hear it.....There's alot more to this story that hasn't revealed itself! Can't get a straight answer on this question....There isn't one huh Jude? Good try on mudding up the water....
Posted by: not buying it | April 23, 2008 9:32 PM
Cookie, Babe, skip? What? that's not an answer to the question. Give it to us Straight Jude! Please explain. I know you read this blog daily! I have asked you several times to explain...with no answer! next, I'm going to write a letter to the Editor maybe then you'll respond.
Posted by: what's in a name? | April 23, 2008 9:42 PM
Ive been waiting for purple lion to respond to Her fault comment this morning so I will.Thats what jurors must decide,IF a law has been broken or not.That is the basic principle of a criminal trial.Every violation of the penal code has to be proven by the State Prosecutor and the defense has the opportunity to challenge it.Then the jury decides.You and I can each murder someone and your jury finds you not guilty,but my jury finds me guilty.The same act but different outcome.It is our right to fight any charge or any law in court or legislature.Remember Rosa Parks or Jim Crow.In 1965 Mohammad Ali was a convicted felon and top ten most hated American.20 years later he was a national hero.As far as jurors scary decisions,all 12 O.J's jurors decided it is ok to kill Nicole and Ron.I thought it was the wrong decision, but we have to respect it.
Posted by: oc surferboy | April 23, 2008 9:45 PM
This is in response to the posting of "Millers are Crooks" which I am sure is Jude Lopez...I never actually called your daughter a "crazy and a liar" but if you want to define her in those terms, I am up for that! Thanks for defining your daughter in the way you perceive her as well. At least we know we agree on the same thing. :)
Posted by: Supporting the Millers | April 23, 2008 11:06 PM
I'm calling John and Ken, see if they want to get to the bottom of the name game....You left that out Judas! Shame on you! Hey Crime stopper (Frank) did he explain the name change to you? Mental abuse! that's what it is! let's change your name and pretend like your father never existed! Then we'll claim sexual abuse charges on Daddy and will live happily ever after! Opps! the doctors saw right through Jenny's act! and that's why she lost her boys! the truth hurts huh Jude? you know it's true! Words from your own mouth ...."You NEVER believed that Brian molested the boys" show the transcipts Jude!
Posted by: name game | April 24, 2008 7:03 AM
Who is Gene? Is that what Jenny had the boys call their Dad? Who's name is Brian? Is that part of the isolation used by the Lopez family?Wow! scary stuff! I have NEVER heard Brian Miller go by Gene...What's up?
Posted by: names! | April 24, 2008 1:30 PM
No one has ever commented on the effect all this is going to have on the children. They can't be enrolled in school under these circumstances. How can anyone justify that? They must have been told to use different names. How can anyone justify that? It seems as though all the adults in this matter are more concerned about "territory" and spite than the welfare of the children. Someone needs to do a little soul searching and end this farse.
I say that one of these days, one of the children is going to "confide" in a little friend that his real name is "so and so"; that little friend is going to tell their mom and dad; that mom or dad are going to say to each other "something is strange here; then they are going to make some calls to someone else and the 4 of clubs, the 9 of spades and all the rest of the house of cards are going to topple! That's my guess. The piper is going to have to be paid. It's just a matter of when.
Posted by: Cornhusker | April 24, 2008 3:17 PM
Any news on Brian Millers court hearing this morning?
Posted by: observant | April 24, 2008 4:14 PM
Can Jude answer the name questions?
Posted by: name calling | April 24, 2008 7:15 PM
Hey Judas, Are you taking a page from the "Miller" handbook...Keep your mouth shut? The Millers showed class letting Judas hang himself with his own words. Let's talk about how "Jen" changed Lil' Brians name to Brad and Daddy Brians name to Gene! let's talk Judas! I knew the REAL truth would reveal itself! Judas, you helped to mentally torture these boys! Own it Judas!it's TRUTH time!Frank, Why haven't you asked these questions? you seem to be so understanding of Judas, and "Jen" it's time for the hard nose questions!
Posted by: A real Mom | April 25, 2008 7:35 AM
Pay the piper!
Posted by: Pay the piper | April 25, 2008 7:40 AM
I agree with A real mom....it sure has gotten quiet when it comes to this subject. Flat out...the Lopez family has screwed those kids up and THAT is why Jenny lost custody and is on the run...period!!
Posted by: Amen | April 25, 2008 8:56 AM
Exactly! JENNY and her family brainwashed the kids, had them believe their Dad molested them, changed the oldest ones name, and has led them to a life underground. The kids have been fed SO much crap(hatred, ritalin, hospitalizations) in order to build a case against Brian Miller Sr. Jenny has created all this drama. She has put her own needs of having a life with her new husband before those of her sons. Pathetic.
Posted by: JLowest | April 25, 2008 10:25 AM
Okay, after all this stuff I have been reading lately, I am motivated to start my own website called: Save4Jennyskids!!!
This website will be dedicated to collecting contributions towards the REWARD & CAPTURE of Jenny Lopez/Dejongh and her whipping boy (I mean husband).
Hell, I even have Jerry Lewis sponsor a Telethon if it means getting those kids to safety!! If this congressman is sooooo rich, how come he has not offered a reward??? Just a thought or maybe he is better off just leaving the proper authorities to do their job.
Posted by: Motivated | April 25, 2008 3:41 PM
Judas! What's in a name? I'll tell you! Pride in oneself, indenity, self-worth, sense of belonging! That's what it is! How dare you and your daughter strip that little boy of his name....Then, isolate and destroy his self-esteem!All in the name of love huh Judas? I'm not going to stop until you respond! I know why you haven't....There is no answer! Frank, talk to Judas yourself and give us an answer! Now, that's news worthy! You cover EVERYTHING else on these topic! Ask the real questions and let's get a straight answer! Judas, it's getting hot in the kitchen huh? Man up! You know your daughter, is one sick puppy! Don't let her destroy those boys!
Posted by: Judas! | April 26, 2008 10:16 AM
Who is Judas? Who is Brad, who is Gene? I read this story and have no idea these names don't line up with the stories people are commenting on. This sounds like two families attacking one another through blogs and court proceedings. What a sad mess.
Posted by: Real Story | April 27, 2008 2:49 PM
Judas=Jude, Brad=lil brian,
Gene=Dad Brian! I'm NOT a family member I'm a outsider asking questions. Come on Jude answer! This is what those poor boys went through with Jude and his Mommy!
Posted by: Anonymous | April 27, 2008 5:21 PM
Jude, Please answer the simple question! We are waiting!
Posted by: Speak up! | April 29, 2008 9:17 PM
Free speech is not free even on Frank's blog. Don't bother commenting if you do not support the Miller's "Crime Scene" will remove it anyway.
Posted by: Brian Miller EXPOSED | April 29, 2008 10:57 PM
Jude, your comments were on a womans weight...What does that have to do with your daughter mentally abusing these boys. I'm not a Miller or a Miller supporter BUT, I must ask myself why you dont answer the question about why she changed her sons name. It just doesn't seem right. Set the record straight.
Posted by: Jude is rude | April 30, 2008 8:58 AM
I did not see anything about weight?? Where did that come from??? I am lost.
Posted by: weight | April 30, 2008 8:01 PM
Krista, you know why Brian wanted to change his name, its because his worthless father Brian G. Miller abused him. In psychology when a child is abused by his father and they share the same name the child will be reminded of the abuse and will sometimes ask to not be called by the same name.
Oh and I am not a Lopez or a Lopez supporter but a person interested in how a convicted child abuser gets custody.
Posted by: Child a Psychologist | April 30, 2008 8:47 PM
The comments of these posters reveal a lack of expertise in the area of how family court works. It's simple: report abuse, lose custody. Also, "abuse" has become the crime-lite word to replace criminal activity. Why? It's better for business...and in family court, judges make sure business is always good.
But when it comes down to it; more men than women kill their children. See www.FamilyLawCourts.com/kids.html
Posted by: Bonnie | May 1, 2008 9:31 AM
Leave the families alone. Why are we picking on them? It's really none of our business what goes on with this case. Regarding Jude...why do you feel he owes you an explanation regarding his daughter's actions. Regarding the Millers...I'm sure they wish their son was more "upstanding". But these are their children, of course they are going to stick up for them. What decent parent wouldn't! For God sake, leave these families alone. Your negative comments will not make an impact on the outcome of this case. Instead of posting another negative comment why don't you take that time to pray for the children and families involved. Prayer - that will make a difference.
Posted by: Let it Be | May 1, 2008 9:40 AM
The "Truth" hurts! That is why he has not answered it.
Maybe Mr. Lopez is Finally waking up.
Posted by: Latin | May 2, 2008 10:16 AM
I you want the truth,go to www.familylawcourts.com/countylosangeles.html If you dare.
Posted by: anonymous | May 2, 2008 4:47 PM
Jude, why the name changes? Talk to us!
Posted by: A real mom | May 3, 2008 8:52 AM